It can be a wild and crazy day if you want it to be!
Different is better when it is more effective or more fun! Do something from what others are doing and define yourself! I was reading a really good book and saw this and it made sense to me! Don't just follow the model that doesn't work! Make your own model and have fun with it!
And...by the way! Give your Valentine a special hug and surprise him/her with something different!
References:Ferriss, Timothy, The 4-Hour Workweek, 2007, Crown Publishing, New York, NY